How in the hell do I DM someone on this fricking forum?

So I had my post taken down by moderator said DM him about the insane issue I’ve been experieincing- and I see no way to DM anyone on this forum!!! This like everything else with IK- overly complicated!!! and impossible to figure out

Click on his/her user name, then select [Message]

Or, click “My messages” in the left-hand menu, then click [New Message]

Your post was not taken down it was locked. A couple of messages that were not in line with keeping things civil on this forum were removed from the thread. Don’t worry, I sent your thread and as much information as I had to the support team for you.

Again, I understand you are frustrated but support is working with you and will resolve your issue and this is the second time I’m asking you to keep things civil.